Bond!

RELATIONSHIPS-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand.
Held loosely, with an open hand,the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly,the sand trickles down through your fingers. You may hold on to some of it,but most will be spilled.
A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person,it is likely to remain intact. But held too tightly,too possessively,and the relationship slips away and is lost!

FAQ ?

Just when I got all the answers of LIFE
they changed the question?

Memories...

Its take a complete lifetime to bury it,
takes a minute for them to return...
Does no good to anybody...
But you can near escape from them!!

Nothing can erase these repetitive haunts;
you can chose to cover them up...
try as you might...against your will.
They’ll haunt you at the oddest hour...

It jus takes a whiff of the fragrance,
Jus the tune of some song,
Jus some similar expression...
to trigger of a long lost string of thoughts!!

Such is the power of our memories...
Learn to live with it!!

Tears...

They flow consistently; jus that you cant see them.
Need I say there are due to pain or cause of joy?
Will it matter?

I can hear you speak, can feel your touch...
But the tears are in my thought...never let them show.
Can’t you make them go away?
I ask...only in vain.

Have I not been yours truly forever?
Then why seek another soul...
Maybe I never was truly yours,
and the tears begin, this time it shows.

It’s visible to everyone else but you...
Or maybe you chose to ignore them;
I don’t want to know why...
I hope you never see them.
If you did, you'll never understand...

A walk in the clouds...

A walk does it all.
Only recently I've starts appreciating the goodness of a walk.
Its so rejuvenating helps me clear my mind.
And my breaths...!
Work in the mornings so has the evenings to venture out for a quick 30 mins walk.
Improves my thought process.
Reduces excessive calories...supposedly.
Keeps me alive for the rest of the day.
It really lifts my spirit, jus walking around.
So lets jus pray laziness doesn’t win over my newfound love for walks!

Feelings

Am the worst at controlling this...have always got into trouble cause of it!!!
And still have never learnt any means and ways to control it.
And lately have realized that most of us are scared of showing it out...
The very basis of differentiation between animals and us is.... Feelings!
Then why is it that we manage to suppress this one??
Are we so incapable of handling it??

I sincerely hope at least a few of y'all are on the same page....
For those who have no clue as to what am speaking about, It’s the most dreaded, never easily displayed emotion...Anger!

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It Symbolizes Love." This was how I saw it: "As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it find. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect , Advise, but don't order , Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring. Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away.....

Somehow...after a pointafter a period of ecstasy,

after mistakes,

blunders....thoughts, tears...smiles,endless evenings, amazing rains...unreasonable fights, mad conversations,weird moods, utterly mad meetings...

I realise... too late, I know.

Irreversible------time's always that way.Nothing lasts forever.. nothings indispensable

When I got all correct answers!, the question has been changed?